Journal > Dispatch #31 (September 2025)

Posted 2025-09-08 under #dispatch

Big month! Nico took his first steps. Nev’s onto a new school (well same school, but moved from the 0-3 building to the 3-5). She seems to be taking to it pretty well, but keeps asking if she can go back to being a little girl, which is adorable and absolutely heartbreaking.

We spent a week with my family up in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware. The highlight was Nev running wild with a whoopie cushion, blasting strangers with fake farts and running away cackling “MY TOOTS ARE THE BEST.”

Two adults and four young children on a sandy beach walkway beneath an overcast sky. Each adult holds a toddler while two children stand in front, with ocean waves and a wooden dune fence behind them. Two women and three young children sit together on a blue playground surface, with trees and playground equipment behind them.

Six adults and four children sit together on the front steps of a gray shingled house, with white wicker furniture on the porch behind them. A smiling woman wearing sunglasses and a baseball cap sits on a floral blanket with a smiling toddler beside her and a curly-haired child reclining across her lap, holding a tambourine. Other adults and children gather on the lawn behind them.

Next we spent Labor Day weekend up in Brooklyn for a high school buddy’s wedding. He owns and runs a music venue called Silo where they held the event. Super fun, but I’d say “I don’t live like that anymore” if I ever actually lived like that.

Two smiling people stand with their arms around each other on a rooftop overlooking a river and city skyline under a clear blue sky. Two people sit close together in a restaurant booth, one wearing a long bright blue wig and dark sunglasses, the other smiling in a neon green bob wig and yellow-tinted cat-eye glasses.

Finally, I just got back from a bachelor weekend on Lake Gaston. Now I’m just looking forward to ten days of treating my body with respect.

Half-marathon training is going pretty well. Managed to get about 20 miles in while we were at the beach. Felt great, though I’ve struggled to reach that kind of mileage in the weeks since. Need to buckle down in the remaining five weeks and I should be able to at least finish if not match my time from previous years. I’m eyeing some new shoes – maybe these? Running shoes are crazy these days, and I can’t tell if all these technical advancements really make a difference for someone of my ability. If you have any thoughts/recommendations, let me know.

I vibe-coded another tool called pgpull for pulling PostgreSQL data dumps from remote servers. ChatGPT did 98% of the work, including some nice fish auto-completion. It’s available on SourceHut.

This post about how much personal information EXIF data gives away led me to check the photos on this site. Despite removing almost all of the actual photo data, I was still including all of the metadata, which runs counter to the privacy preservation I’m going for. Adding -strip to the ImageMagick call clears it all out, and as a nice bonus, cuts the file size roughly in half.

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